love blossoms only in truth

 “Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind…” Romans 12:2

Hi, I’m Jackie

I was raised in a small city in northern Peru. Life there was simple — family meant everything. I’m one of six siblings, and though my parents did their best, many times I felt unheard. My mom was protective and nurturing, but with six kids running in different directions, some days I felt like no one heard me or took care of me. Looking back, I can see better the reality and how those small moments stayed with me more than I wanted to admit. For a long time, I carried resentment without truly understanding its roots; as a result, I found it hard to believe that God was listening.

As I grew older, I made a promise to myself:

“When I have a child one day, I will learn to parent them. I’ll raise my child differently.”

When I turned 18, I moved to Europe and eventually settled in the United States, where I’ve now lived for over 16 years with my husband and daughter.

In the middle of my confusion, feeling unprepared and exhausted I finally met Jesus in the year 2000 — He showed me that I was relating to Him the same way I once felt with my family: unheard. That realization changed everything. God began healing parts of me I didn’t even know were wounded — the places still longing to be heard.

Through His mercy, I learned that no person in the world can give us the love we need and that love can only blossom in a family when there is heartfelt, sincere and unified communication.

This truth became the foundation of my motherhood and marriage. Over time, I learned that even with faith and love, parenting and marriage can still test the deepest parts of our daily lives. But the more we understand God and our emotions the more His grace teaches us how to gently reshape how we see, listen and love. 

My Journey of Learning and Calling

Over the years, I’ve served in many roles — missionary, Montessori teacher assistant, coach, wife, and mom.
I’ve worked in early childhood education, helping little ones build foundations in self-regulation, cooperative play, independence, kindness, and social-emotional growth. I’ve also guided professionals in their personal and professional development.

I earned my Bachelor’s degree in Communications from the University of Washington, where I learned how communication shapes perception, emotions, and positive change.
My faith journey began working as a missionary, teaching children ages 10–15 about the Bible, prayer, and Christian character — nurturing their moral understanding and social awareness.
Later, in 2021, I became a certified professional coach and NLP Practitioner through an ICF-approved program, combining faith, positive psychology, and communication to help people find clarity, confidence, and peace.

Over time, through prayer and reflection, I began to sense that God was expanding my calling. I realized that while helping individuals succeed was meaningful, true peace can’t exist when our homes are in turmoil.
Real transformation begins with people closest to us — our families. Because when our homes are whole, everything else finds balance. That realization changed not just my work path, but my heart.

Like many parents, I’ve read countless books, watched videos, and even gone to therapy — and while therapy can help a lot, I learned that reflection without faith often stays only in the mind. We can know everything about ourselves and still feel stuck.
But when God becomes part of that reflection, awareness turns into transformation — and peace begins to take root. 

What I Do Today

Today, I help families rebuild connection, restore peace, and rediscover joy — blending faith, emotional awareness, and real-life growth.
My approach brings together years of experience in communication, Montessori education, and professional coaching, shaped by my own journey of parenting, marriage, and faith.

I created the DM™ parenting method, a faith-based framework that helps parents reflect God’s love in their homes. Through my coaching, I guide parents see themselves — and their children — through God’s approach, not the world’s. Because when parents begin to heal, children don’t just behave differently — they become different.

That’s the heart of my work — helping families get educated, grow closer, calmer, and more rooted in love.